Dating/Sex FAQ

The Basics

Sexual Preference Bottom
Height 5'10"/1.75M
Weight

Current: 320 lbs / 146 kg (11/27/04)
High: 440 lbs / 200 kg (1996)
Low: 275 lbs / 125 kg (2001)

Had any LTR's? 1 for 1.5 years
Had any Boyfriends? 1 for 6 months
Looking for a F@#*buddy? Yes
Looking for a date? Yes
Looking for an LTR? Yes
Looking for friends? Yes
Open/Closed? Monogamy, but slight chance of negotiation
Lost virginity? Age 29
Cut or Uncut? cut
Size 4" and thick I'm told
Swallow? In a monogamous relationship, happily
Safe? Always, but looking to be unsafe in a monogamous relationship
Status Negative, you be too
Ever had any STD's? Never

Questions Questions...

What do you find physically attractive/What is your type?
I have no 'type' at all. I like many things about men. Things that do get my attention include: facial hair, muscles, dark features, and accents, BUT I've been very attracted to guys that had none of those. So there is no simple answer.

Do you like leather?
Not really. It can look great on hot muscular guys, but I have no interest in the sexual side of leather nor having sex with anybody wearing any leather gear.

Do you have any kinks?
None.

Do you have any fetishes?
Sorta. There are a few 'non sexual' things that are to me extremely attractive on a man. They are Roman noses, big metal watches (a la 70's porn stars), mustaches, veiny arms, Boston accents, sour candy... more as they occur to me.

Turn On's?
Neck rubs, hand holding, cuddling, innuendo, humor

Turn Off's?
Odors, pushy tops, closed mindedness

Size Queen?
I enjoy well hung guys (6" and up) but it doesn't take more than 6". I'm easy to please.

Prefer Cut or Uncut?
I enjoy both.

What does PowerBottom mean?
It means that I don't consider myself passive or submissive. My sexual appetite can be enormous.. CAN be, but isn't always. I can be easy to please. I can be aggressive and a little dominant as a bottom. When it comes to bottoming for me size is no issue. I've yet to run across a guy tha was too big. If the guy wants to take a long long time I have lots and lots of endurance. Being a bottom is in my genetic code because for me the pleasures and sensations of bottoming can be more intense and pleasureable than an orgasm. If I get fucked I can roll over and go to sleep. I don't have to get off.

Do you put out in the first date?
Depends on the chemistry and energy with the guy. Some guys come off as gentlemen and others come off as wanting that milk as soon as the cow walks through the door. I can go either way.

Perfect date?
Dinner followed by something social like movie, dancing, bar, sitting somewhere and talking, then ideally some good sex. The sex can be rough or tender and romantic. It depends.

Do you like black/asian/latino guys?
I have found attractive guys in all categories, though it's less often in black men, and least common in asian men.